I remember the 1st time I saw the movie Gremlins as a little kid I thought it was the scariest movie ever. In fact it scared me so much that I didn't watch it again until a few weeks ago. All through out grade school and high school whenever anyone would mention Gremlins I would recall that moment in time as a little kid and become really scared. Now I wouldn't actually tell anyone I was scared but in my mind I sure was feeling all those emotions of being scared.

Yet, somewhere along the way I completely forgot everything about the movie except the feelings that it created; it was my symbol for scared.

Then a few weeks back I was watching TV and a movie was on that had all these silly little green creatures running around. The movie was quite funny until during a commercial break it was revealed that the movie I was watching was in fact Gremlins.

After going to Blockbuster and renting Gremlins to in fact reconfirm that the movie I had just been watching was Gremlins. I found that my belief about Gremlins not only was completely wrong but rather silly and foolish.

My belief had been destroyed not because I was older and now knew that it was a movie but because I actually had watched the movie again as an adult and seen how really silly and not scary it was.

When it comes to attracting women sometimes beliefs that we have formed at a very early age, shape the way we perceive our thoughts and actions when it comes to how we attract women.

Now I am in no way saying that one day you might wake up with a beautiful woman sleeping next to you and realize that there was nothing scary about her. However there are plenty of chances for you to walk up to a beautiful woman and know for yourself that there isn't anything scary about a beautiful woman and that your previous beliefs about attracting women were just plain silly.