An article about growing up active children.

From this parents can get recommendation to grow up healthier and high IQ children. Today many parents stop with one child and plan for the next one after five or six years. They think that growing each of them would be easy. But the psychologists say the sharing among the siblings will greatly depend on their age difference. More than five years gap provides not a good sharing as it will cause envy in primi (first child). Or more age difference cause them to think the younger are no persons to share the feelings and they start to command them in the absence of parents.

Apart from these difficulties, the parents in no other go condition would probably select this choice. If the elder one is grown in a friendly way and data feeding remains healthy there would be no problem. So parents dont scare and follow these tips to get better results in making good framed mind in your juniors.

Make a friendly relationship with the children, dont command them or beat them for their mischief. Make them feel their mistake with the help of short stories. I know at the angry moment we cant stop our rant and start telling stories. Control your children by scaring them by telling what they are afraid of.

Tell your story that night before going to bed. I practice this method for my three year old and this pays well. Sometimes if I do anything different from what I teach him he will start telling story to me about that, those moments made me to write this.

Never use your television as your baby sitter. Of course making it so on limited hours everyday do no harm. Make them watch Animal planet and tell some good characters of the animals in some short stories, so that the child can follow. Too much of cartoon channels or action based movies are also not for good mind set.

I felt this when my kid dived voluntarily from a seven foot high playground theme, obviously thats the only place he will be playing outside. Fortunately nothing wrong happened and he was afraid to play in that again. After I asked why he dived he answered that some cartoon characters done like that for fun. After that I made him to see only limited programs on TV.

His obsessive programs are Dora the explorer, Maisy and The adventures of Little Bear on Nickelodeon channel; Tiny planets and Bob the builder on Playhouse Disney channel.

Give your kid the option to decide something that doesnt bother you. They will feel their importance. Never do anything favor for a tantrum. As they cry and start getting things and you are ruining their reputation.

Teach to work MS paint in PC. Encourage every crude attempt in painting or writing they do themselves to make them feel content.

Make the home time an enthusiastic, exiting full of fun and learning should be behind every thing. Cheer their colorings, paintings, playing and arrangements with toys. Tell them to organize the toys and put it back every time they finish playing.

Teach them some origami, pasting stickers, making fun drawings, cut outs of the alphabets and numbers. Paste stars for their good moments on calendar. Add up the stars after getting sufficient number of stars give them a gift or a journey to park or library.

Dont speak to them in the babbling words they use, use standard language.

Never laugh at your kid for their ignorance. This will make them feel unsecured and maintain a distance with you. Teach everything they should know. Give a basic knowledge of every field of study as they grow up they will unknowingly use it.

I believe the IQ and zeal to study come to every one as a result of the effort of parents who supports morally the kids when they are growing up.

I this way I am feeling very lucky and proud of my father who give all his compassion and efforts to frame our mindset for me and my brother. He is a wonderful person to admire, a gifted raconteur with unlimited number of short stories which make us benevolent, kind caring and successful individuals. My mother never mitigates our own thoughts and makes us feel so important.

I desire all families to be like that favoring best child growth. Have a nice day. AbiSuresh